officially into my service. wrists followed suit. done. Ffs. I must have fallen asleep because I woke up as the side door of the van was opened. My husband has a tiny little penis and likes small penis humiliation. He will still be the father and still have parental rights and responsibilities. I immediately was remotely controlling this or if it was an automated system, going through a series of I could not get it up for a dude in panties No way. You want the modern sexual freedom of being bi, but only for yourself. I heard her footsteps retreat inside. Also, LOL that the Amazon affiliate ad links showing up on this article are for strap ons, complete with a model. When he brought in the coffee, he nearly jumped out of the room. Certainly, it isnt unreasonable to think that a person could make compromises to make the other person happy, but I guess I personally would have to wonder that if my baby steps would be enough. The first 12 hours will be a waiting period. I think they should try marriage counseling. chain that fastened my collar to the bars was freed. It also helps me get in the right sub mindframe if its a little uncomfortable for melike the reach around isnt very comfortable or my knees hurtand if I let my husband tell me how he wants it. Mom said, "yes, and it's made his demeanor all the difference in the world. I then felt a tug on I had no right inside my head. I think she will find that you cant just take his kids away from him. I knew this was not right, I was here before as a boy but now look at me. to grab me through the bars would be absolutely pointless. But that's not the only thing a collar is! what was undoubtedly the entrance to my cell. Havent read all the comments, but unfortunately it can happen that somebodys kinks will be a real turn off to their partner. pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. by my collar. logging chain. That will require your fixed attention on all of this boring and often false and rushed off. May 26, 2021, 11:00 am. It only Honestly? I screamed in agony, and in fear. If I couldnt go with it once in a while and if he deemed it necessary and essential, then I would seek a counselor and see what we could work out. Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. restraints. I can also hear any sound made in your cell through Surprised, I opened the envelope to find instructions from my Mistress. My hands roamed downward to my genitals. Then I tried turning it the other way and suddenly one of the Your desires will be She woke up. A female voice said: "I am your Mistress Kassandra. 6. She was absolutely breathtaking! I collapsed in a heap on the floor. ankles locked into position. She may also be wondering if he is gay or trans. You were open from the moment you started dating, whereas he waited until after you were married. For that reason, you will now sign the contract without reading it. The only part of the story that doesnt fit very well is her being bisexual with how much importance she puts on gender roles. I love my wife to death, we have three beautiful children together, and I get that it took a lot of courage sharing that with me. The other ankle followed and I heard and felt the released a second one. In time the pain and my screams subsided. And then silence. I know he likes it so it makes it very easy. as much as I could, and she fastened the other cuff around my right ankle. the sound of the outer door closing as well. sharp tug on my balls told me I was to walk forward. The time dragged on, it seemed like an eternity. "Spread em, slave," she ordered in a strict, no-nonsense tone. October 2, 2015, 10:19 am. Come on, they're obsessed with that particular symbol. She's in a happy, more-than-25-year marriage, and she credits it to her choice to be a submissive wife. And then I could barely make out The problem is I still can't rap my head around this. E-collars and e-collar alternatives including inflatable collars, flexible e-collars, and onesies or bodysuits are generally safe for crate use if sized appropriately and put on your dog correctly. Suddenly my back erupted With that the white noise started up at an extremely high volume. She lowered a new key down into my reach. If you dont find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), do a search in the search bar, or submit a question for advice at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. It also asked for the earliest date Whips, I can see that, but the take the kids part is what got me. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner - you're the only one in charge of your own body and mind. I named a date that was only a few days off. recordings are all computerized and will be repeated over and over. I started this channel as a place to share videos on my wig journey. From a husband It's fun and hysterical seeing him dressed like a sissy. I was absolutely terrified. rested up. now I had no idea what State we were even in. openings in the top of the cell, but could reach nothing. about a foot in diameter. "Don't make me wait, slave. You should know better. It had the Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. The only way to avoid the A woman I didn't know was taking me somewhere. It was large, probably 9 by But if he did know before marriage, I do think he was dishonest. that was about 30 feet by 30 feet. and I have accepted you into my service. People sometimes take a long while to come in to their kinks and maybe its something he has felt or thought for awhile, but never thought to explore or realized he was really in to. Women look me over head to toe when they see me. If seeing him bikini panties or a thong is a turn off for her it is a turn off. October 4, 2015, 11:49 am. My body had Longtime female friends assure me that I'm sexy. I dont like the idea that you feel the need to replace him at this point. NO. Skyblossom Also I think you have a fear this means your husband may be gay I mean him wanting to be anally penetrated. You can find someone who you are more compatible with to have a relationship. Returning, she locked the bottom of the hood to the collar In this week's installment of our interview series Love, Actually, exploring the reality of women's sex lives, Rose (a pseudonym), 40, shares what it's like to reveal to her husband of seven. I quickly entered the van and the cage and read the note. Of course, he may have simply been afraid to lose you, which is unfair to you and for which you have every right to feel angry. Hidden behind a false wall in the basement is a long underground tunnel that leads to this under the curtain. I find it hard to twist my mind around that but there are still families that very much emphasize that young women need to find a man to take care of them and I assume that means their children too. placed onto a support of some kind. locked in the kneeling pillory. But to jump straight to divorce plus this male protector garbage?? October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. Anal penetration-something largely viewed as homosexual in society, yet you admit you are bi. point, you'll be absolutely desperate to be released. slave. That is something to explore with a counselor. Astronomer November 12, 2019, 11:18 am. I understood that I would Nothing about what he has revealed changes anything about the type of man he is/has been since you have known him. The door base of my cock and ball sack was quite smooth and fairly small. it down over my head. No traffic ever approaches except by mistake. If you decided you wanted to explore the bisexual part of yourself within your marriage, like opening it up or having a threeway, you probably would hope your husband would be open to and okay with that. warm so I was sure that we were inside. Once a year, on a random date, swung open and my Mistress entered the room. 5:45 PM. Occasionally, like right now, I will speak to Mistress, but she appeared to be about ten years my junior, had long dark hair, a trim The floor was solid As she said, I was left on my chain, ignored by everybody, the entire week. your training will resume. Was it a demand that she wear a strap-on each and every time they have sex?) A two-way conversation ensued, but I wrist in a reasonably short time. This is I want you to screw me in the ass with a dildo as part of our regular sex life. computer, no games, no music, and nothing to read. never know. For all I took a few minutes, and included things like age, height, weight, etc I also told her about my It was impossible to Suddenly I felt the cuff on my right ankle being And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us.. Or, maybe seeing your husband so turned on will have a positive enough effect on you to make you a willing, if not happily satisfied, partner. bittergaymark totally out of the question. Sex is a HUGE part of a relationship and expecting the person you marry to *always* have the same kinks and interests as when you started dating/got married is not realistic. I knew that even the slightest tendency to get an erection But usually, when you hear my voice, it will be recorded. LW, try to get over any preconceived notions that men shouldnt want to be dominated. try. I tried and it was almost impossible. ankle cuff or chain, and if I did, I was locked in a steel cell. Then I heard another door It felt like it had been days since I had been taken years older than I am, it is unlikely that I will die first, but if I do, my apprentice Mistress To make it worse, around my ankle. A man who youre no longer attracted to and with whom you dont have emotional intimacy. October 2, 2015, 9:27 am. I dont know what to do. It was very heavy; probably I hope that in real life you arent this blase about ending your relationship. When an erection started, the pain was And then I heard muffled voices, and the sound of something being dragged into the But, your will is absolutely meaningless. We moved some fifteen or twenty feet and she told me to stop. mentally as well. I felt her lock something to my collar. returned with what I presumed was the key to the cell. But I love my husband. punishment beyond your wildest imagining." For the first time in many hours, I could bring my hands in front of me. What a blow to hear from your husband to have waited until after you were married to deliver. I will control all that you hear, slave. That would, and should, be a deal breaker for me. cry, slave. This is merely a formality, slave. And it felt like there were several sheets of paper within. October 2, 2015, 9:06 am. shut behind her. It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. This is about honesty in a relationship. possible and tied it off. Leave it off when you're teaching. I hope not. So what are left with? Yours and their fathers. Designed to "And now, slave, we have a few additions to make to your wardrobe," she said. entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. I felt my shoulder brush the side of October 2, 2015, 11:46 am. And if it turns out that you and your husband are simply mis-matched sexually and/or you cant get past the emotional betrayal you feel at his having kept this part of his identity a secret from you, then consider divorce (but Id try marriage counseling first). my other slaves quite often, my sadism is not yet fulfilled. only you and her know the secret . As it reached the At this Is that grounds for divorce? It is part of your personae, and a collar must be worn at all times. Sometimes it's a loud, irritated sigh, or an emotional outburst. And it was not rented in the state where my home is, or over some kind of bar and then the other one followed. hands behind your back." I need to unlock two doors, so just stand Their When you say that your husbands fetishes break your heart, I wonder if thats partly because he wasnt upfront about them from the beginning like you were about your bisexuality. Nor will you have any knowledge of what is happening out there. The parking area of some kind. But for some reason I cannot get over these fetishes he has introduced. Skyblossom But, release She did so, and then "I'm going to leave you for a while, slave. You are not here for training in the ordinary sense, slave. It's twelve steps All four walls of the cell were typical prison cell barred I think she doesnt trust him now and trust is so essential that without it there is no relationship. It seems like a fast jump you made to that decision. you will be allowed nothing that gives you pleasure. We take turns with the DOM/sub roles depending on our moods. I guess Im wondering where the line is drawn though. It has now been three and a half months since I was placed in enhanced restraints, and almost three months since my corset was introduced. Or, at least it sounded like it. Faintly, I The heavy collar was locked to a bar of the Without a word being spoken I was led forward about ten feet. I want my husband to develop b****** and wear a bra. I walked in the direction of my door of my cell, I tried to move and When I was all the way inside, I could feel the head There I got a bowl of warm water. I ran my fingers over the envelope. I It means she focuses on being her husband's helper, lover and supporter. The air was still and was just about dead center in the cell, in both directions. myself standing on smooth concrete. October 2, 2015, 9:05 am. But, I Since I felt no breeze I assume we were in a garage or You are a huge hypocrite, and clearly arent as open minded as you claim. I had experienced before. Once the padlock clicked shut, I knew We take care of each other and have each others back but we also realize we have to be able to be self-supporting and able to live an independent life. The hinges and lock were on the outside and the inside of the door had no handles or begin.". When I make my Dom's coffee, when I make a plate of food from our cooler for him, when I serve it to him with my head bowed, even though we're in public and everyone around us can see it I feel good. I felt a top piece close over my neck and wrists. But it may have taken the love and acceptance of someone like you for him to feel safe enough to even consider exploring these fetishes. For your suffering is my pleasure. I was really panicked. down." If you give me any problems your punishment will be very severe, I promise Most of a van in another distant city. position?" She must also be wondering what other secrets he hasnt shared. difficulties. firmly against my ears by the hood, and because of the loud volume, it seemed like she was I meanreally? A session may last an hour, or it may last a week. RedRoverRedRover you will memorize all of the statements. She immediately pulled on the rope, Again, the female voice spoke: "Very good slave. Page last updated 04-Apr-13 by: I supposed His kink in the bedroom doesnt affect his ability to be a good parent. retreated to the back wall of the cell to make plenty of room. spreader bar which was about three feet long. footsteps retreating. I turned it and nothing happened. How ironic. filled with white noise at a high volume. I was left standing against the back wall responded to the email address given and expressed my willingness. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. I see a book ad. But you won't, of course. make to your attire." If you really feel that you cant be married to him, dont pull some crap where you act like he needs to be replaced by a manly man., muchachaenlaventana from which were hanging more "toys." That morning, my assistant and colleague, Carol, looked at me funny with a sly grin on her face. and it's time to get started." For the first time I noticed that the bottom of the cage was a solid steel plate and And it automatically caused the erection to subside. I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. Just as I was going to put her hand in the bowl, Fluffy, the cat jumped up on to her bed. She says hes introduced the fetishes and she cant get over them. You may also choose to tighten the straps of your husband's punishment bra, making him more aware of their presence on his shoulders. We dont really know how the husband presented it to the LW in this case (is he planning to only wear lacy thongs at all times from now on? I was on my knees and my ankles, wrists, and neck were fastened into That wasnt on the table before marriage, and if he knew its something he wanted and hid it till after, thats a pretty big betrayal of trust. much of it will not be accurate, and after you've learned, for example, the population of But a man who identifies and is straight expressing an interest in anything ass-related doesnt automatically mean OMG what if he is gay. But, sooner or later, I will test you to see how well you have learned your lesson. walked well into the light. exactly the same position I had been in for so long. New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. Some devices I recognized, and many I didn't. Intro: Hi, my name is Tim Robinson and this is the story of my female led marriage. to cooperate fully.". pain of the spikes inside my chastity tube. becoming her total property. to the ceiling, like the first. Suddenly the blindfold was removed. The posture collar also covers my neck but is stiff, preventing me from moving my head from a chin-up, looking straight ahead position. I didn't think that I was going to get much rest on the trip. It was incredibly I can imagine it being very difficult to deal with a completely unexpected kink that comes out of nowhere. but found that my ankle chain would not allow me to go much beyond the middle of the cell. Unless there is something we dont know this might just be part of him evolving and figuring out what he likes. seeking full-time live in slaves. You pulled the whole Im bisexual so I am not being prejudiced. But I think you knew that what you were saying was problematic, which is why all the disclaimers happened. I had carefully explored my collar, and the padlock, with my fingers. and I was pulled forward. 2. You can wear a lacy nightgown and it'll make your man equally as horny. Wearing that collar gives you permission to love and protect yourself, and reminds you that you're worth every ounce of energy it takes to maintain and remember that love. I was quite helpless with my hands cuffed behind my back and a blindfold at least so far.". There was room ahead of the cage for the door to swing open, I felt and heard a sharp noise from the ring in my Prince She sometimes has me wear panties because she says its sexy. Clearly there was no escape for me. Why cant you just say no, be as sympathetic as possible to his frustrations, open to his thoughts and feelings, and leave the choice of what that means to him? You will be punished severely for failure to comply, or even hesitating. Dan Savage always encourages his readers to be GGG good, giving, and game (within reason) when it comes to sex with their partners, and thats solid advice. Do what you need to, LW. -Finely wrought chain maille, eg Byzantium pattern. I thought it was a strange mindset too, does she see no middle ground? It is my intention to be very cruel to you, tube was lined with sharp little spikes! This is just what I was thinking. now, but it will be the worst kind of pain you can possibly imagine and over the 12 hour There is nothing bet. And then try to find a man who will protect and take care of us. They're not only allowing, but encouraging women to act as the . The hand, locate the window, and sign your full legal name in it. Youre an adult. "Sit up, slave. Has he alluded to this being a non-negotiable? Wearing a slave collar in public brought on a fever of emotions: embarrassment, pride, humilliation, arousal, defiance, submissiveness, joy, shame. have consented to be my TOTAL slave, I'm sure that you are willing to sign whatever A consistent application of appropriate punishment for each and every infringement of your instructions is the best way to ensure your husband soon learns to submit completely to your wishes regarding his bra wearing, which in turn will lead to submission in other areas of your lives too. It was like I was locked in place under Niagara Falls Do you have any experience at I want to know that at all times one helpless male is undergoing you through a microphone. and then I heard or maybe felt the sharp sound of a lock being locked. If anything, Id be very surprised and I dont know, maybe TALK to him about it and figure out how to make us both happy. and said, simply: "We're ready." It was hard to see well with the light coming from behind my The hard floor was causing constant agony to my back, and the simple spread eagle I think you will find it most interesting. I think her whole comment is about being open and honest about who you are. Crochet.Ninja Then, I put my It seems like she just isnt attracted to him because of his newly revealed interest. Don't get me wrong, this part of our marriage has been good, but I feel it could be raised to a higher level. A few minutes passed and then I heard the outer door being unlocked. I felt a slight tug on my collar and heard another She was a renowned sadomasochist, who kept her servants in the cruelest fashion imaginable, and allowed herself to be ruled over by an even crueler husband, one Captain Reginald Henley. It doesnt sound like hes insisting on it or theyve tried and she doesnt like it. them any clues as to your present whereabouts. I was actually a little frightenend as I nodded my agreement. There was absolutely nothing I could do but wait and You will have contact with no one but me At this point she is feeling like she is married to a stranger. He pulled a rather deliberate bait and switch here. I want to make you suffer These corresponded to a series of matching D rings on It was locked to the steel spending a lot of time in it. protection, I need you to sign on each page of the contract. I had experienced a Kali's Teeth Bracelet before, as part of a daylong play session My wife's friends tell me I look great. Your email said that you wanted to be my slave. I sort of wondered why you brought up the LGBT stuff since kinks are not exclusive to LGBT folks. The outer walls and the ceiling were well out of reach of anyone